Here's an example problem and our conversation about it.
Me: What's 10 minus 6?
Boy: Can't you just tell me the answer?
Me: Of course not, you won't learn anything that way.
Boy: Dad tells me the answers.
When my husband was my fiancee (about 27 years ago) he would say that we were going to buy the old family farm and raise chickens, goats, etc. I would get so furious with him that I would cry! Well here I am on the family farm with chickens, children, dogs, ducks, rabbits, and goats and I'm loving it (mostly.) I enjoy photography (contact me to order prints), my family, and farm.